Dec 23, 2019
LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/expanding-your-erotic-capacity-getting-off-on-your-shame-finding-pleasure-through-contraction/ I woke up on Sunday morning feeling my inner erotic muse yearning for me to share, speak out loud and express the erotic experience I had the night before during a partnered Erotic Play Date with Andy (aka a sex date). I was snuggled up next to Scarlet that morning trying to sleepily shake off the urge to get up and record a podcast, hoping to ignore it for a "better time." My inner erotic muse is quite the seductress and I realized it was pointless trying to fight or subdue her for a more convenient time. She wanted to express herself NOW. The words for this podcast episode started to move through me, calling me to take action. So I did. I was staying at Andy's parent's house so I had to sit out in my car (in winter...talk about devotion) for some privacy and quietude. I intended for this to be only about 15 minutes long, but it just kept pouring out of me. In this episode I talk about... Two moments during sex with Andy where I felt shame pushing my erotic edges...and I had to decide whether to expand or contract How to find pleasure in pain and contraction How to get right with and get off on your shame, shadows and contraction The spiral or descent into contraction and how to work with the layers of contraction for expanding your ability to receive, handle and hold MORE erotic energy, pleasure, sensation and orgasmic potential What Andy said to me that turned me on AND repulsed me at the same time...making me think "why the fuck do I like this?"...and... How I transmuted the shame that came up around my kinky nature during sex into full approval and turn on Why contraction is a sign of your erotic edge and how you can gently push your limits Understanding your limits during sex and how to feel safe and resourced enough to know when to push your limit or honor your limit Sign up for my 4-Part Reclaiming Your Eroticism Video Series: amberleitz.com/reclaim Join my free 7-Day Org*smic Pleasure Challenge here: http://www.amberleitz.com/challenge/ Doors to my 6-week self pleasure program all about taking your pleasure and orgasm into a deep vaginal and whole body experience, Orgasmic Pleasure, are open until Friday 12/27 Midnight EST. http://www.amberleitz.com/op/ I’d love for you to SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recl…st/id1085118625 Connect with me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/amberleitz/