Nov 16, 2019
LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/are-you-hiding-who-you-are-in-the-bedroom/ In today’s episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, we’re exploring all of the ways that you might be hiding who you truly are in the bedroom… This could be the literal ways that you hide like only having sex if the lights are off or not letting your partner see you naked…or avoiding your own naked body in the mirror. I did that one for years so you’re not alone if that’s you. It could also be the metaphorical ways you hide by not telling your partner what you really desire in the bedroom, hiding your sexual fantasies and sexual shadows from them or stuffing your emotions down if they come up during sexual play. Let me just say, I used to be an expert at hiding. I’m still pretty adept at it…to the point where sometimes I don’t even realizing I’m hiding. I might be hiding a certain archetype or energy that comes up (like the slut or seductress — those are big ones for me), hiding a desire or fantasy from him, hiding my emotions and continuing on with sex when I don’t really want to or hiding my face by only doing certain sex positions if I’m afraid of being seen that intimately. This theme of hiding who we are in the bedroom really started to come in for me when I was about 9 months pregnant and my partner and I had only been living together in the house we bought for like a month. There were some patterns coming up for me that made me realize I had some interesting sexual shadows simmering beneath the surface and I was hiding things from myself and Andy. Things like… My fear of owning my seductress My relationship with knowing he was masturbating and some fucked up beliefs I had about that Shutting down during sex a lot and feeling weirdly objectified, especially as I navigated the transition to motherhood AND still being an erotic woman Still allowing penetration when I wasn’t interested or ready just to have the intimacy and connection Feeling awkward about how to communicate or share certain desires with him This is a pretty raw and real episode where I share a lot about the ways in which I’ve hidden in past relationships, with Andy and even in my business as an erotic coach! You definitely don’t want to miss it. Sign up for my 4-Part Reclaiming Your Eroticism Video Series: http://amberleitz.com/reclaim I’d love for you to SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recl…st/id1085118625 Connect with me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/amberleitz/